- If I prefer the pink or the purple
- What movie I want to see
- Where I want to go to lunch
- What time I want to eat
- Whether I want my bangs a little shorter
- Who should win DWTS
- Why I hate to shop
I have spent a lifetime making decisions.
In the early years it was.... what to wear, who to date, what classes to take, how to solve for "x", who to support for student council, whether or not to smoke, how to choose real friends, how to get a summer job, how to pass botany, what classes to cut, how to sneak out of the dorm, how to sneak stuff into the dorm, who to marry, who to invite, what to wear.
As a wife/mom it was.....what to wear, how to cook, what to cook, how to stretch a dollar, how to bathe a baby, how to potty train a kid, how to retrieve a dime a kid has swallowed, how to keep a kid safe, how to safely cross a street with a bunch of kids, who to let ride in the "way back", whether to get a dog, how to potty train a dog, how to keep a dog safe from a bunch of kids, how to fix that
enjoy all those weddings, what to wear.
As a career person it was.....what to wear, how to relearn to type, how to tell debits from credits, how to interact with adults in groups, how to get promoted, how to help customers, how to fit in the cooking and cleaning with the day job, when to keep my mouth shut at meetings, how to express my ideas at meetings, what community groups to support, how to plan corporate parties and events, how to write strategic plans, how to meet goals, who to mentor, who to promote, how to survive a truly horrid boss, how to drink the kool aid without gagging, how to fit in at "headquarters", when to tender my resignation, what to wear.
Now I'm retired. I know I can wear my keds and khakis and polos and crew necks everyday and it doesn't make a damn bit of difference. Kids and corporations can make their own way in life. I am tired of making decisions. You decide.
Just, don't ask me.
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This is by far the best Primer of or for 'Life'....ever. And the best start to my day ever....I always hope to start it with a smile or laugh or appreciation of wisdom. TY Lynn!
ReplyDeleteI am with you on that! Well, except for when I want what I want.
ReplyDeleteI was able to overcome senile dementia via a complete naturopathic process.
ReplyDeleteAbout two years ago, when I was 56, I started feeling foggy and had occasional memory lapses. My wife, Mary, started to notice it, too, but I also have hearing issues so she thought that was the problem. My memory worsened very gradually over the years, and we lived with it, compensating as needed. I became less social. After some months thereafter, it got to the point where we couldn’t keep making excuses or ignoring it. I had gone from doing our grocery shopping without a list to going with a list, to having the list but not buying what was on it.
Mary went online to do some research, and it was during this process we had been fortunate enough to come across Dr. Utu Herbal Cure: an African herbalist and witch doctor whose professional works had majored on the eradication of certain viral conditions, especially dementia, ( improving the memory capacity positively), via a traditional, naturopathic process and distinguished diet plan. It was by the administration of this herbal specialist that I had been able to improve my condition for better. So to say, the encounter with the above-mentioned herbal practitioner was the first time we ever heard there was something that possibly can be done to improve my memory functionality.
By the existence of such an encounter, I was able to learn of the new approach by which this herbalist successfully treated dementia conditions, which included a distinguished herbal therapy and lifestyle changes of which I had undergone to a tremendous, positive effect.
It was after the completion of the herbal therapy I had started to experience a great deal of cognitive improvement when it came to rational decision making.
In brief, I was able to go through the dreadful hollows of senile dementia without any further hazardous damage to my health condition, and within a short period. Had it not been for the support of my wife, of whom had encouraged me to undergo the above-mentioned therapy and that of the herbal practitioner of whom now happens to be benefactor - I would have been long exposed to the further perils of this condition and of which had been apt to result to a calamitous end.
I would also wish for the same positiveness upon patients who may happen to be suffering from this debilitating disease, and would warmly beseech them to find a confidant like this herbal specialist with whose professional service I was able to attain a divine recovery.
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